You built the career, showed up for everyone, managed the workload alongside the children, the ageing parents, the school runs and the performance reviews, and somehow made it look manageable. You were the one people called when things needed sorting, and you sorted them. That was not luck. That was decades of determination, sacrifice, and an almost ferocious commitment to…

Burnout tends to get framed as a modern problem, something produced by overloaded inboxes, impossible workloads, and a culture that treats exhaustion as a badge of competence. And those things are real. But for some people, burnout runs deeper than the job, and no amount of annual leave or boundary-setting quite reaches it. If you have tried all the conventional…